Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Sex Resolutions

What better place to start than with the new year? I've never been a huge fan of new year's resolutions, but I'm sure you've all made long, boring lists of resolutions that involve lots of boring sessions on the treadmill, giving up all the foods you even remotely enjoy and spending every waking hour cleaning the house. And next year your list will probably look a lot like that one up there.

This year, why not do something different? How about setting some healthy goals that are, I dunno, FUN?  Did you know that sex helps reduce stress - and regular orgasms even reduce the chances of prostate cancer in men? That's right, sex is good for you. So add these to your list of new year's resolutions:
  • Try at least one new sexual position every month.
  • Spend some time "soloing" - even if you're in a relationship. It's an important way of keeping in touch with your body and can take the pressure off if you get performance anxiety. Who knows, you might even discover a few new tricks to pass on to your partner!
  • Indulge in a new sex toy - like this one!
  • Check out end-of-the-year roundup sex books, like Best Sex Writing 2013 (out in January) or an erotic compilation.
  • Make sex into playtime - resolve to play out one of your sexual fantasies (and one of your partner's) to keep things exciting!
Now go forth and get sexy with your bad selves!


  1. The hubs saw this list & said "see, this is the kind of resolution EVERY woman should have" haha. Bravo on picking out good ones for us ;)

    Also, I couldnt agree with you more. Sex often takes the back burner & I tend to forget that it's actually fun and not a 'chore'. Thanks for the reminder.

    1. Haha! I agree with him. It is easy to lose sight of the fun in the midst of work and chores and who's turn is it to do the laundry? Everyone needs a little reminder to stop and smell the flowers (or have an orgasm or two) once in awhile! ;)

  2. Great blog! I have read about it on Lin's blog and will definitely follow! And I totally have your sex bible too!

    1. Thanks! It's a favourite topic of mine, so I figured hey, why not blog about it? I LOVE that book. So informative and so funny!


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